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Plush

Saturday, April 30th, 2005

I found a place selling the knitted dolls from Hitchhiker’s. You can buy the whole set for $65. Ahh, the same place will be selling a Hitchhiker’s survival kit! Complete with a towel, Babel Fish, and a hitchhiking spaceship homing ring. Too frickin cute. But not really a deal at $48. The knitted toys are really tempting, but I’m not sure if it is something I would buy. The quality looks a off. Oh well.

Science fair stuff tomorrow. Brittany just HAD to go with my mother to her shop. She’s old enough to be responsible, so she knows she has to do it tomorrow. If she doesn’t, it is her own fault.

Hitchhiker’s seen

Friday, April 29th, 2005

Hitchhiker’s was good. No one brought a towel. Don’t go in comparing it to the book. Adams wrote most of it, it is his style, but it doesn’t go exactly by the book. Enjoy it as a movie.

That is all until everyone else has seen it. I’m not one for spoiling it. :D

Edited to add: I have the opening/closing song stuck in my head. I want to go to sleep but I can’t get it out of my head. You’ve been warned.

Bookage

Thursday, April 28th, 2005

I made an emergency trip to the library this morning. Well, it wasn’t really an emergency, but I really needed to find a book (or three). I came out with one of the books I needed, a book Brittany needs for her science fair project, and a knitting book. Since hurricane Charley took the roof off of the library, they lost a lot of books. In order to be a library, they had to get more books. Well, they seemed to have stocked up on the knitting books! I swear I must have had a huge grin on my face when I saw all of them. I only got one due to the fact that I only have three weeks with the books.

I picked up Knitted Toys by Fiona McTague. Oh how I am loving quite a few of the patterns. They are fairly simple too. The seams won’t bother me, but the small needle sizes might. In any instance, I am tempted to either make copies of the pattern or buy the book.

Ideas

Wednesday, April 27th, 2005

I think I may have some free time this weekend, aside from Brittany possibly needing my help with her science fair project. I think I may redesign her site and mine. I will start with her site though. I have an idea of what she might want. Oh yes, I have ideas.

We managed to do a little more of the drywall today. Josh is still sick and it has been making it difficult to get it done. I would do it on my own, but I think I would end up dumping the drywall compound on his head (on purpose) before it was all over.

I have a date for Friday. Josh and I are hoping to get to see the early showing for Hitchhiker’s. Triple X: Something or another opens the same day, so an afternoon/evening showing is not something I am interested in.

Bush’s energy discussion today irritated me. Will I get a tax break for having a TDI which can run Biodiesel? Will I be able to buy biodiesel for less than $4 a gallon? There are so many taxes on it that it makes it too expensive to run. We like getting 50 miles per gallon on regular diesel, so I’ll stick to it. At least we’re not spewing out soot like the big rigs. We maintain our car. Give me a tax break for that! I don’t know where all of this is coming from. Pent up anger or something?

Money

Wednesday, April 27th, 2005

Why is it that with my bank, my purchases show up instantly, but not my deposits? OK, so I know the answer, but it doesn’t make it less irritating.

Josh and I have been busy trying to finish the drywall and painting on the back patio. It was damaged thanks to hurricane Jeanne. Time hadn’t allowed us to get it done until now. The drywall is up, now it’s making it look decent. We ran out of joint compound and will be heading off to get some in a few minutes. We need paint too, but I don’t recall what color, so we’ll skip picking that up for the time being.

Other than drywalling, I have been working hard to get client work done. Oh and I got sunburned this weekend. I’m peeling like crazy right now! I feel like I am in kindergarten and I put glue on my hand!

To the Batmobile, Robin. Time to get some drywall compound!

Movies and more movies

Saturday, April 23rd, 2005

The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, 2005I haven’t really wanted to see too many movies lately, but this next weekend begins a boat load of movie marathoning. This is the list of the movies I want to see in the next few months. The list just gets bigger and bigger as the year goes on.

The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy (April 29th) -
Kingdom of Heaven (May 6th)
Crash (May 6th)
Unleashed (May 13th)
Star Wars: Episode III – Revenge of the Sith (May 19th)
Batman Begins (June 17th)
War of the Worlds (June 29th)

Wired magazine has a bit on the movie/book comparison for Hitchhiker’s. Adams apparently finished 85% of the screenplay before he passed away. I am not REALLY sure if I want to see Episode III, but I have heard it is better than the last two. Maybe I will see a matinee, just in case.

Weird dreams

Saturday, April 23rd, 2005

I had one weird dream last night. A friend was doing a movie where he had to rescue his true love from the clutches of evil. His true love was played by Lauren Graham. The dream had lots of CG.

Brittany's Living Dead DollI’m up early so I can be a good wife and help Josh and the gang with this shin-dig (fly-in) that they are having today and tomorrow. Dooood, I’m tired. I’m so sleeping the few minutes drive.

Don’t worry, I’ll be taking pictures. Speaking of pictures, this one to the left is of one of Brittany’s Bratz dolls that she buried. She has an entire dead resort going on in my garden!!! We think it is helping her deal with my grandmother’s death which was three weeks ago today.

Actions

Thursday, April 21st, 2005

From my dear friend Calhoun, it is time once again for South Carolinians to get on the phone.

Judiciary Committee passes cockfighting bill, tables domestic violence bill
http://www.wistv.com/Global/story.asp?S=3233130&nav=0RaMYral
(Columbia) April 20, 2005 – The State House took up two pieces of legislation this week aimed at protecting two different groups. Up for debate was cracking down on gamecock fighting and protecting victims of domestic violence.

A bill protecting cocks passed through the House Judiciary Committee. Rep. John Graham Altman (R-Dist. 119-Charleston) was in favor of the gamecock bill, “I was all for that. Cockfighting reminds me of the Roman circus, Coliseum.”

A bill advocates say would protect victims against batterers was tabled, killing it for the year. Rep. Altman is on the committee that looked at the domestic violence bill, “I think this bill is probably drafted out of an abundance of ignorance.”

Wednesday, Vicki Bourus, an advocate for victims of domestic violence, was inundated with phone calls and e-mail. The people were reacting to Graham Altman’s comments against the bill, “There’s just an outcry going on.”

Both cockfighting and domestic violence are currently misdemeanor crimes, punishable by 30 days in jail. If the bill passes, cockfighting will become a felony, punishable by five years in jail. Domestic violence crimes will remain a misdemeanor.

Rep. Gilda Cobb-Hunter (D-Dist. 66-Orangeburg) says of the two bills, “What we have said by the actions of the Judiciary Committee is we aren’t going to create a felony if you beat your wife, partner. But now, if you’ve got some cockfighting going on, whoa! Wait a minute.”

Rep. Altman responds to the comparison, “People who compare the two are not very smart and if you don’t understand the difference, Ms. Gormley, between trying to ban the savage practice of watching chickens trying to kill each other and protecting people’s rights in CDV statutes, I’ll never be able to explain it to you in 100 years ma’am.”

News 10 reporter Kara Gormley asked Altman, “That’s fine if you feel you will never be able to explain it to me, but my question to you is: does that show that we are valuing a gamecock’s life over a woman’s life?”

Altman again, “You’re really not very bright and I realize you are not accustomed to this, but I’m accustomed to reporters having a better sense of depth of things and your asking this question to me would indicate you can’t understand the answer. To ask the question is to demonstrate an enormous amount of ignorance. I’m not trying to be rude or hostile, I’m telling you.”

Gormley, “It’s rude when you tell someone they are not very bright.”

Altman, “You’re not very bright and you’ll just have to live with that.”

In the follow-up interview, Rep. Altman commented, “I wanted to offend that snippy reporter who come in here on a mission. She already had the story and she came in with some dumb questions and I don’t mind telling people when they ask dumb questions.”

Rep. Cobb-Hunter says, “The reality is the law says domestic violence regardless, first, second or third offense is a misdemeanor, and what they passed yesterday says cockfighting is a felony.”

Rep. Altman spoke about domestic violence, “There ought not to be a second offense. The woman ought to not be around the man. I mean you women want it one way and not another. Women want to punish the men, and I do not understand why women continue to go back around men who abuse them. And I’ve asked women that and they all tell me the same answer, John Graham you don’t understand. And I say you’re right, I don’t understand.”

Gormley, “So it’s their fault for going back?”

Altman, “Now there you go, trying to twist that too. And I don’t mind you trying. It’s not the woman’s fault, it’s not blaming the victim, but tell me what self respecting person is going back around someone who beats them?

Bourus says there a number of reasons, “She may have children with that person, and she may fear that it will harm them to live without their dad, or she is majorly financially dependent on his check to feed her children.”

Bourus adds another reason women sometimes stay, “After an incident a violent incident, quite often the batterer will say I’m so sorry, it will never happen again.”

Rep. Altman has worked with abused women, and in a second interview with a lowcountry station he said he tells them not to go back, and when he does, “They listen to me, they don’t don’t go back.”

When asked whether he was sure, he said, “At least not while I’m representing her.”

During the same interview, he responded to the reporter’s question, “You seem to be drawn to this fixation that women have to go back. I don’t think that speaks highly of women. I think women can think and be responsible for their own actions. Woman are not some toys out there, drawn back to the magnet of the man a lot of these men are bums and cretins and they have to be punished but I think women are independent enough to not go back to the men who beat them. And we have a lot of men who are abused by women, but they are too ashamed to admit it.”

Rep. Cobb-Hunter explained her bill, “The question that needs to be asked is this. Should a woman because she decides to go back for whatever the reason to return to an abusive relationship, does that mean it’s Ok to beat her, to kill her, for her to lose her life, for her children to witness the violence they witness?”

Rep. Altman, “I know you are after a story. And it’s kind of a nice story, that we’ve tabled a CDV bill. Because then you can talk about the insensitive man, the insensitive legislator, but it’s not the case. But I don’t know why a woman, there would ever be a second offense.”

Cobb-Hunter admits there was a lot of information in the bill, which she co-sponsored, but she is already working on breaking it down, “One of the things I’ve learned, having been here as long as I have, is that if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

Rep. Altman spoke out against a number of items in the bill, including dealing with restraining orders and training judges, “Clearly this bill is drawn by people who don’t know what is going on out there.”

Rep. Altman doesn’t agree with the training, “What are you going to tell a family court judge that a family court judge doesn’t already know about domestic violence?”

Vicki Bourus helped draft the bill, and what she calls a key item in it, the training of family court judges and magistrates, “There is very little if any training in domestic violence for them on a mandatory basis.”

Bourus says, “You may know that many magistrates are not trained as attorneys so they wouldn’t even have that piece of it that attorneys might get.”

Speaker David Wilkins issued the following statement Wednesday regarding this story, “Criminal Domestic Violence (CDV) and animal cruelty are both critical issues that this body takes very seriously. The House is working diligently to improve the language on the CDV bill and pass meaningful legislation. That is our goal. In its present form, the bill has a number of legal and technical problems that would have made it very difficult to pass. We intend to fix those problems and get a bill to the floor of the House.”

While Bourus doesn’t agree with what Graham Altman has to say, she is happy that people are starting to talk about the issue of domestic violence, “Is Graham Altman alone in his way of thinking? Oh, no, no, no. I think he’s a very vocal rep, resistant to really seeing domestic violence as the serious crime that it is, but we know that sentiment is runs throughout the House and Senate as well. But we also know there are some very valiant allies.”

Wednesday, Rep. Altman told the lowcountry television station that he didn’t mean to offend victims of domestic violence, but had no apology for the interview.

Cobb-Hunter plans to reintroduce the bill in January. If you want to voice your opinion on these bills, you can call the House Judiciary Committee at (803)734-3120. Rep. Altman’s office phone number is (803)734-2947 and you can contact Rep. Cobb-Hunter’s office at (803)734-2809 or you can email Cobb-Hunter at gch@scstatehouse.net

Pope

Tuesday, April 19th, 2005

A new pope has been elected. Pope Benedict XVI, Joseph Ratzinger. Hrm. Conservative Catholic, hrm.

My mom said, “So we’re going to have more unwanted babies around huh?”

Kitty eyes

Sunday, April 17th, 2005

Skittles has allergies. Every once in a while they flare up and she scratches around her ears and eyes like there is no tomorrow. She had scratched one day this week and she scratched a tiny patch of fur off. It was healing nicely and the fur is already growing back. Apparently sometime last night she scratched again and now the bare spot is larger. When we looked this morning it was still red, so we knew it was recent.

I’ve given her a little herbal goodness to help, but we have to also clip her nails tonight. Good gord is this an undertaking. I will have to dope her up on catnip and feed her first. She will be impossible if I don’t.

Aw, she’s sitting here looking at me (wanting to be fed early) and she looks like she’s a prize fighter the night after the big fight. I just can’t take the cuteness and she knows it.


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